Mugabo dore uburyo bwonyine bwagufasha kumara ipfa  umugore wawe

Akenshi benshi benshi bibwira ko imibonano mpuzabitsina ari imbaraga nyinshi cyane ibintu bakabigira intambara, ariko si ko biri, imibonano mpuzabitsina ni mu mutwe, ibintu ukabitwara gake ubundi ukanezeza umugore kakahava.

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1. Uretse gutegurana mukorakoranaho mu gihe mugiye kwinjira muri icyo gikorwa,ni na byiza cyane ko musomana kandi mu bwitonzi kuko buriya iyo usomye umugore ahita yumva ibinyamuneza umubiri we wose.Ubwo rero bisaba ko umugabo akorakora ibice bishobora kongerera ubushake umugore ndetse akanamusoma birambuye.

2. Igihe mutangiye icyo gikorwa ntukamushyireho ibiro byawe byose niba mukoresheje uburyo bwo kumujyaho kuko iyo umushyizeho ibiro byawe byose,uba umubujije kwisanzura ngo nawe yumve ibyishimo neza.Ahubwo jya wiyoroshya bizabafasha mwembi gusangira umunezero.

3. Jya wirinda gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ucecetse cyangwa usa naho utishimye.Ahubwo uramwenyura ukamwereka ko wishimye kandi ukanamubaza uko yumva bimeze,mbese mukaganira uko igikorwa kimeze.Ibyo byongera ibyishimo ku mpande zombi.

4. Jya wirinda gukoresha umukunzi wawe ibintu bivunanye cyangwa atamenyereye ku gahato,ari nk’ibyo ubona mu mafilime y’urukozasoni ngo nawe wumve ko aribyo agomba kugukorera.Ugomba kumugendesha gahoro ndetse ukabikora ari uko ubona ko bitamubangamiye kandi ukabikora mu gihe ubona ko yishimiye icyo gikorwa.

 

5. Iyo ufite ikibazo cyo kurangiza vuba cyangwa kurangiza utinze uba ugomba kumenya uko uri bushimisha umukunzi wawe.Niba urangije vuba,gerageza ukoreshe uburyo bwose wakomeza ugashimisha umugore kugira ngo nawe agere ku byishimo bye bya nyuma.Niba kandi urangiza utinze kora uburyo bwose umushimisha mpaka urangije kugira ngo atarambirwa akumva bimubihiye kuko we ashobora kuba yamaze kugera ku byishimo bye bya nyuma.

6. Muteguze ko ugiye kurangiza kugira ngo bitamutungura.Buriya iyo ubimuteguje nawe ahita yitegura bikabafasha kuba mwanarangiriza rimwe, umunezero ushobora kwiyongera mu gihe umugore arangije ariko iyo umupfubije, n’umunezero we uba uwupfubije.

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