Impaka ku myambarire y’abakobwa n’abagore zikomeje gufata indi ntera mu Rwanda, nyuma y’uko bamwe mu bakobwa bagaragaye babuzwa kwinjira mu bikorwa cyangwa ahantu runaka bitewe n’imyenda bari bambaye.
Iki kibazo cyongeye kuzamura ikibazo gikomeye kijyanye n’umudendezo wo guhitamo imyambarire, inshingano zo kubahiriza amabwiriza y’ahantu runaka ndetse n’umurongo ugomba gushyirwa hagati yo kutemeranya n’imyambarire y’umuntu no kumuhutaza.
Mu gihe bamwe bavuga ko umuntu akwiye kugira uburenganzira busesuye bwo guhitamo uko yambara, abandi bagaragaza ko hari ahantu hashobora kugira amabwiriza y’imyambarire bitewe n’imiterere yaho, umuco, akazi cyangwa ibikorwa bihakorerwa.
Knowless yamaganye ihohoterwa rishingiye ku myambarire
Umuhanzikazi Butera Knowless ni umwe mu bagaragaje impungenge kuri iki kibazo, ashimangira ko imyambarire y’umukobwa cyangwa umugore itagomba na rimwe kuba impamvu yo kumutuka, kumuhutaza cyangwa kumukorera ihohoterwa.
Mu butumwa yanyujije ku rubuga rwa X, yavuze ko gufata umukobwa nabi kubera imyambaro yahisemo kwambara bidakwiye.
Ati: “Gufata umukobwa muri ubwo buryo kubera imyambaro yahisemo kwambara ni bibi. Si iby’i Rwanda.”
Knowless kandi yashimangiye ko imyambarire idaha umuntu uburenganzira bwo gukorakora undi ku gahato, kumuhutaza cyangwa kumusambanya.
Ati: “Imyambarire y’umugore cyangwa umukobwa ntigera iha umuntu uwo ari we wese uburenganzira bwo kumuhutaza, kumukorera ihohoterwa, kumukoraho cyangwa kumusambanya.”
Yasabye kandi Polisi y’u Rwanda gukurikirana ibyabaye no gufata ingamba zikwiye, ariko anagaragaza ko ikibazo kimwe kitagomba gutuma abantu birengagiza ibikorwa byiza Polisi ikora mu kurinda umutekano, by’umwihariko uw’abagore n’abakobwa.
Ariko ubwisanzure bwo kwambara ntibukuraho amabwiriza y’ahantu
Nubwo kurengera umuntu ku ihohoterwa rishingiye ku myambarire ari ingenzi, hari n’uruhande rw’ikibazo rukeneye kwitabwaho: ubwisanzure bwo guhitamo imyenda ntabwo bivuze ko ahantu hose umuntu ashobora kwambara uko yishakiye nta mabwiriza agenderwaho.
Amashuri, insengero, aho bakorera, ibirori bimwe na bimwe ndetse n’ahandi hahurira abantu benshi hashobora kugira amabwiriza y’imyambarire agamije kubahiriza imiterere y’aho hantu.
Aha ni ho hakwiye gutandukanywa ibintu bibiri: gusaba umuntu kubahiriza amabwiriza y’imyambarire no kumuhutaza kubera uko yambaye.
Umuntu ashobora kubwirwa ko imyambaro yambaye itemerewe ahantu runaka, ariko ibyo ntibikwiye kumuha ishingiro ryo gutukwa, gukubitwa, gukorwaho ku gahato cyangwa gukorerwa irindi hohoterwa.
Amategeko n’imyambarire: Hari itandukaniro rikomeye
Mu bihugu byinshi byo mu Burayi no muri Leta Zunze Ubumwe za Amerika, nta tegeko rusange rishyiraho urutonde rw’imyenda umugore cyangwa umukobwa yemerewe kwambara mu muhanda.
Ahubwo, amategeko akenshi yibanda ku bikorwa birimo kwerekana ubwambure mu ruhame cyangwa ibikorwa bifatwa nk’ibibangamira ubupfura rusange, bitewe n’amategeko y’igihugu cyangwa agace runaka.
Ibi bituma habaho itandukaniro hagati yo kwambara umwenda mugufi cyangwa ugaragaza igice runaka cy’umubiri no kwerekana ubwambure mu buryo amategeko abuza.
Urugero, mu Bwongereza hari icyaha kizwi nka “outraging public decency”, gishobora gukoreshwa ku bikorwa bifatwa nk’ibibangamira cyane ubupfura rusange. Hari kandi amategeko ajyanye no kwerekana ubwambure mu bihe cyangwa uburyo bushobora kuba icyaha.
Ariko ibi ntibisobanura ko umukobwa wambaye ikanzu ngufi cyangwa umwenda ugaragaza amaguru ahita aba yakoze icyaha.
Muri Leta Zunze Ubumwe za Amerika na ho nta tegeko rimwe rigenga imyambarire mu gihugu cyose. Leta zitandukanye zigira amategeko yazo.
Urugero, muri North Carolina hari amategeko arebana na “indecent exposure”, yibanda ku kwerekana imyanya y’ibanga mu ruhame. Ibi bigaragaza ko amategeko ashobora kwibanda ku gikorwa cyo kwerekana ubwambure aho gushyiraho urutonde rw’imyenda umugore cyangwa umukobwa yemerewe kwambara.
Umurongo ugomba gushyirwa hagati y’amabwiriza n’ihohoterwa
Mu by’ukuri, impaka z’imyambarire ntizikwiye kuba intandaro yo guhohotera cyangwa gutesha umuntu agaciro.
Iyo ahantu runaka hari amabwiriza y’imyambarire, ayashyiraho akwiye kuyamenyesha abantu mu buryo busobanutse kandi akayashyira mu bikorwa mu buryo butabogama.
Ku rundi ruhande, umuntu na we ashobora kutemeranya n’amabwiriza y’aho hantu, ariko agahitamo kuyubahiriza cyangwa akareka kuhagera niba atemera ibisabwa.
Ikibazo gikomeye gitangira iyo imyambarire ikoreshejwe nk’impamvu yo kwambura umuntu uburenganzira bwe, kumutesha agaciro cyangwa kumukorera ihohoterwa.
Kuba umuntu yambaye imyenda undi adakunda ntibivuze ko yemeye gukorwaho. Kuba imyambaro ye idahuye n’amabwiriza y’ahantu runaka na byo ntibihindura ihohoterwa igikorwa cyemewe.
bityo rero impaka ku myambarire zikwiye kurebwa mu buryo bwagutse, hagatandukanywa ubwisanzure bw’umuntu bwo kwihitiramo imyambaro, amabwiriza y’ahantu runaka n’uburenganzira bw’umuntu bwo kurindwa ihohoterwa.
Amabwiriza y’imyambarire ashobora kubaho aho bikenewe, ariko agomba gutangwa no gushyirwa mu bikorwa mu buryo buboneye kandi bwubahiriza umuntu.
Ku rundi ruhande, kutishimira imyambarire y’umuntu ntibigomba na rimwe guhinduka urwitwazo rwo kumutuka, kumukoraho ku gahato cyangwa kumugirira nabi.
Icy’ingenzi si ukwemeza ko buri myambaro ikwiye ahantu hose, ahubwo ni ugushyiraho umurongo usobanutse: imyambarire ishobora kugibwaho impaka, ariko ihohoterwa ntirishobora gutsindishirizwa n’imyambaro umuntu yambaye.
